im drunk and feel like talking so add me on skype. the name is vivalacurly
You can’t advocate self-care & self-love w/o acknowledging that these 2 concepts are subjective, therefore the way You demonstrate self-love and self-care isn’t the same thing someone demonstrates for themselves so we have to realize that even on our quest to love ourselves better, to take care of ourselves, to obtain peace within ourselves that we must take into accountant the lives, experiences and journeys of those around us especially those close to us. We have to learn to not take things personally and to avoid selfishness if it isn’t completely essential and take into consideration the lives that entangle with our own (relationships, friendships, family, etc). Finding that balance between selfishness and selflessness.
(breaks into your house) can i pet your dogs
(breaks into your house) drink bleach bitch
Fun History Fact: The overwhelming majority of cowboys in the U.S. were Indigenous, Black, and/or Mexican persons. The omnipresent white cowboy is a Hollywood studio concoction meant to uphold the mythology of white masculinity.
Nigga is this a fruit joke???
Reblog if u a lil slept on
in real life… hella slept on
why do moms get so pissed about how many empty water bottles you have in your room
because it takes two minutes to throw them in the recycling
can 2014 be the year we realize that respecting and uplifting black women
is not the same as dating and fucking black women?
that you can love and support black women even if you’re not dating one?
and you can also date a black woman and still not support black women (because you see her as the exception)?
I swear im more of a mother than a big sister to destiny. it’s been like that since she was born like while my mom was working and my dad was dealing with his sleep issues, which caused him to sleep all day after work, I was in 6th grade taking care of my baby sister. my older brother would be doing football stuff after school and my other sister was only in 3rd grade so she’d normally be out playing and then it’d be me and des in the house watching thomas or elmo. all of that causes me and my parents to bump heads when they try to parent her like I know im her sister but for a really long time I was her caregiver so it’s weird